7 ways India says “husband” and what each one really means

In the Hindi heartland, the dictionary word is pati, straight from Sanskrit; formal, respectful, a little reserved. But step into rural Uttar Pradesh, and you’ll hear saiyan and balmua, words that feel warmer, worn with laughter and familiarity. They show up in Bhojpuri songs and local films, sometimes teasing, sometimes tender. Saiyan once meant “beloved,” but it’s often what wives call their husbands in villages even today.